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miscarriages.and.milestones

🤍 Miscarriages & Milestones Podcast🤍
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Reflecting on that first year post miscarriage.. .

Reflecting on that first year post miscarriage.. .

𝐌𝐢𝐬𝐜𝐚𝐫𝐫𝐢𝐚𝐠𝐞𝐬 𝐚𝐧𝐝 𝐌𝐢𝐥𝐞𝐬𝐭𝐨𝐧𝐞𝐬 𝐄𝐩𝐢𝐬𝐨𝐝𝐞 5: 𝑪𝒐𝒏𝒄𝒆𝒊𝒗𝒊𝒏𝒈 𝑨𝒇𝒕𝒆𝒓 𝑴𝒊𝒔𝒄𝒂𝒓𝒓𝒊𝒂𝒈𝒆 (𝑻𝑻𝑪)

Episode 5 is now 𝐋𝐈𝐕𝐄. Link in bio!

In this episode of Miscarriages and Milestones, we dive into the complex journey of trying to conceive (TTC) after experiencing a miscarriage. Join me, as we explore the emotional landscape of pregnancy after miscarriage, the challenges of TTC following baby loss, and the delicate balance of nurturing hope while grieving.

I discuss the often-misunderstood urgency many feel to become pregnant again after a loss, the fears that accompany this leap of faith, and the implications behind phrases like “you can always have another baby.” This conversation sheds light on fertility after miscarriage, the waiting period to conceive again, and the less spoken of gap between loss and pregnancies' after.

The desire to try again is not synonymous with moving on, and that a living child is not a replacement for the ones lost. Pregnancy after loss is not a reset; it’s a unique journey filled with its own challenges and joys.

Whether you’re navigating TTC after loss, experiencing pregnancy after miscarriage, or supporting someone through the grief of baby loss, this episode offers honest, nuanced, and compassionate perspectives on a journey shaped by both love and loss.

I’m truly grateful you found your way here. 💜💜💜

#pregnancyloss #miscarriage #babyloss #grief #miscarriageawareness #miscarriagesupport #pregnancylossawareness #lifeafterloss #pregnancyafterloss #miscarriagesmilestones #bereavedmother #babylossawareness #rainbowbaby #griefsuppor #lossmom #pregnancylosssupport #pregnancyandinfantloss #bereavedparents #pregnancyandinfantlossawareness

My 3 January babies 💜💙💙 "Any mother of m $My 3 January babies 💜💙💙 "Any mother of multiple children (or mother of multiples) will understand that your time, energy and attention will be divided. This is no less true for mothers who have lost. I hold space to love, cherish, and remember all my children. Room for love, and room to grieve. Like all balancing acts, this process is imperfect. Times when I will need to prioritize the needs of one child over another, or more challenging, times when I need to admit that I need to step back from motherhood responsibilities to calm and collect myself. A mothers relationship with her children changes as time passes. This is true for the living and the lost. Years beyond the loss I have healed in many ways. The grief not so unbearable. The anger more manageable. The pain, for the most part, replaced with bittersweet gratitude for having known baby H and the meaningful impact she has had on our lives and the experiences thereafter. I am hopeful for a long, fulfilling life with my living children filled with all the joys, new discoveries, and even necessary pains that make life worth living. For my daughter, we only had a small fraction of time carved out. A time now relegated to memories. I always say that I never moved on from the loss of my daughter. I have moved forward with her. I hold her still and love her very much. As I do all my children, living, passed, and those not yet born. Parenting twins after loss doesn’t replace the pain, it offers space to grow love in parallel. I continue honoring my deceased child while navigating this new chapter of parenting after loss and healing." #PregnancyLoss, #Miscarriage #PregnancyLossAwareness #BabyLoss #bereavedparents #Twinmom #Miscarriagesandmilestones$

𝐌𝐢𝐬𝐜𝐚𝐫𝐫𝐢𝐚𝐠𝐞𝐬 𝐚𝐧𝐝 𝐌𝐢𝐥𝐞𝐬𝐭𝐨𝐧𝐞𝐬 𝐄𝐩𝐢𝐬𝐨𝐝𝐞 𝟒: 𝐇𝐚𝐧𝐧𝐚’𝐬 𝐒𝐭𝐨𝐫𝐲 🐇

Episode 4 is now 𝐋𝐈𝐕𝐄. Link in bio!

This is the most personal one I’ve ever shared. I’m sharing my story, 𝑯𝒂𝒏𝒏𝒂’𝒔 𝒔𝒕𝒐𝒓𝒚, and the journey I walked with her through loss.

For years, I’ve spoken at events for loss mothers, healthcare providers, and students… but always in pieces. Shortened for time, or censored for the room. In this episode I share the most complete retelling I’ve ever given, including parts I’ve never spoken about until now.

This is my experience of a silent second-trimester miscarriage, often called a missed miscarriage, of my daughter Hanna. It’s a story that includes midwifery care, a planned home birth, unexpected emergency room visits, and the surgery that ultimately saved my life.

It’s a journey marked by fear, anger, and hopelessness — and also, unexpectedly, by love, growth, and grace.

𝐌𝐢𝐥𝐞𝐬𝐭𝐨𝐧𝐞𝐬 𝐈 𝐒𝐡𝐚𝐫𝐞:

♡ Pregnancy as a first time mom
♡ The Silent loss and birth of my baby in the second trimester
♡ Preparing for and laboring baby’s arrival at home
♡ Honoring her short life with photos and a tender burial
♡ Navigating postpartum recovery without a living baby
♡ How grief reshaped friendships, support systems, and relationships
♡ Facing unexpected and painful reminders in the world
♡ Channeling loss into writing, hands-on projects, and creative expression

Thank you for letting me share Hanna’s story. Thank you for honoring her with your presence. For letting Hanna’s memory live alongside your own. I hope that hearing mine helps you feel seen, less alone, and connected to another loss mom who understands.

I’m truly grateful you found your way here. 💜💜💜

#pregnancyloss #miscarriage #babyloss #grief #miscarriageawareness #miscarriagesupport #pregnancylossawareness #lifeafterloss #pregnancyafterloss #miscarriagesmilestones #bereavedmother #babylossawareness #rainbowbaby #griefsuppor #lossmom #pregnancylosssupport #pregnancyandinfantloss #bereavedparents #pregnancyandinfantlossawareness

✨New Episode Coming soon! This week, I’ll be

✨New Episode Coming soon!

This week, I’ll be sharing the most personal episode I’ve ever created. 🐇🌷

For the first time, I’m telling Hanna’s story—our story—from conception to loss, and the milestones that followed.

If you’ve walked this road, if you love someone who has, or if you simply want to understand pregnancy loss on a deeper level—I invite you to listen.

𝑺𝒕𝒂𝒚 𝒕𝒖𝒏𝒆𝒅

#pregnancyloss #miscarriage #babyloss #grief #miscarriageawareness #miscarriagesupport #pregnancylossawareness #lifeafterloss #pregnancyafterloss #miscarriagesmilestones #bereavedmother #babylossawareness #rainbowbaby #griefsuppor #lossmom #pregnancylosssupport #pregnancyandinfantloss #bereavedparents #pregnancyandinfantlossawareness

🎙️ LISTEN NOW: https://open.spotify.com/episo

🎙️ LISTEN NOW:
https://open.spotify.com/episode/6jvTcttkhMzWtQb6lNG0qz?si=Uzz9Z9GgSc2hJg6wnqrg1A&nd=1&dlsi=549ad3f1460b4f9d

In this episode, I sit down with Carmen, a mother of five earth babies and two angel babies, and founder of CALM Health Physiotherapy for a conversation on life after the loss of two precious babies.

With bittersweet honesty, Carmen shares the stories of her son Thorin (a second-trimester silent loss) and her daughter Jayne (a first-trimester loss), reflecting on the life-changing impact they had on her life. She speaks to the way loss reshaped her understanding of grief, how it strengthened her family, and guided her back to God in a deeply personal way.

Carmen also reflects on the emotional aftermath of pregnancy loss. The grief that can feel isolating, the healing only possible when women are truly supported, and the societal and medical gaps that often fail loss moms. After discovering her own mother’s hidden loss, she addresses the generational silence surrounding miscarriage and the powerful healing that comes from informed post partum care.

As the founder of CALM Health Physiotherapy, Carmen sheds light on the often overlooked layers of postpartum wellness, emphasizing the need for trauma-informed, whole-body support for women in every chapter of motherhood, including loss.

Milestones We Explore:

♡ Honoring her angel babies, Thorin and Jayne
♡ Facing the physiological impact of pregnancy after loss 🌈
♡ Parenting that nurtures her children’s healthy grasp of grief
♡ Rebuilding her faith in God after loss
♡ Breaking generational silence after learning of her mother’s loss
♡ Using her voice to support and uplift the loss-mom community
♡ Advocating for postpartum and loss-informed care through CALM Health Physiotherapy
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@calmhealthptdoc
www.calmhealthpt.com
#carmenphysio

👣 Miscarriages & Milestones Podcast 👣
If you're interested in sharing your own story, please apply at our webpage linked in the bio.

#pregnancyafterloss #parentingafterloss #pregnancyloss #miscarriage #babyloss #lossmom #bereavedmother #bereavedparents #Miscarriagesandmilestones

𝗪𝗮𝗻𝘁 𝗧𝗼 𝗦𝗵𝗮𝗿𝗲 𝗬𝗢𝗨𝗥 𝗠𝗶𝗹𝗲𝘀𝘁𝗼𝗻𝗲𝘀? 👣

When I lost my sweet baby girl, I remember longing for connection more than anything. I wanted to say her name out loud, to tell the world about the beautiful baby they would never get to meet, and to find others who truly understood the life changing impact of that grief.

@Miscarriages.and.Milestones podcast was born from that longing. Dedicated to the mothers navigating life after pregnancy loss, at any stage. Together, we honour the milestones we’re rarely invited to talk about.

On this podcast, I host unfiltered conversations with mothers who want to:

❤ Honour their baby’s memory
❤ See and celebrate the growth within themselves
❤ Offer their unique perspective and values
❤ Help other grieving mothers feel less alone
❤ Reclaim their loss in their own words, unfiltered
❤ Chip away at silence and stigma
❤ Create a meaningful tribute to the little life/lives that changed theirs

I would love to hear from you:
www.montessoriwithmultiples.com/miscarriagesandmilestonespodcast/

Your story matters. Your babies matter. You are not alone.

#pregnancyafterloss #parentingafterloss #pregnancyloss #miscarriage #babyloss #lossmom #bereavedmother #bereavedparents #Miscarriagesandmilestones

In this episode, I sit down with Carmen, a mother

In this episode, I sit down with Carmen, a mother of five earth babies and two angel babies.

With bittersweet honesty, Carmen shares about her son Thorin (a second-trimester loss) and her daughter Jayne (a first-trimester loss), and the life-changing impact they had on her as a person, a parent, and ultimately on her faith.

Carmen reflects on the emotional aftermath of loss—the growth that can emerge from grief when it is properly supported—and the limitations women often face when seeking adequate care after pregnancy loss. As the founder of CALM Health Physiotherapy, she also sheds light on the often under served layers of postpartum wellness.

This episode seeks to offer comfort and clarity for anyone navigating life after loss—and guidance for those who want to better support loved ones walking through pregnancy loss.

LISTEN SOON AT:
open.spotify.com/show/0iXufUrvXnw4u34xKtZ2yt

@calmhealthptdoc
www.calmhealthpt.com
#carmenphysio

👣 Miscarriages & Milestones Podcast 👣
If you're interested in sharing your own story, please apply at our webpage:

MontessoriWithMultiples.com/MiscarriagesAndMilestonesPodcast/

#pregnancyafterloss #parentingafterloss #PALSupport #pregnancyloss #miscarriage #babyloss #lossmom #bereavedmother #bereavedparents #Miscarriagesandmilestones

🌈 Episode 2: A Rainbow Welcoming Party for Preg

🌈 Episode 2: A Rainbow Welcoming Party for Pregnancy after Loss

In pregnancy after loss, that need to celebrate can feel complicated. In this episode, I share how my family redefined celebration through a Sip & See — a quiet, post-birth gathering that offered space for both healing and gratitude.

Together, we can reflect on the emotions pregnancy after loss stirs within us, and the courage it takes to hope again. How a baby-welcoming became can bridge the experiences of the baby you now hold in your arms, with the baby you hold in your heart.

Whether you’re walking through pregnancy after loss or supporting someone who is, this episode offers gentle perspective, compassion, and permission to celebrate on your own terms.

LISTEN HERE:
https://open.spotify.com/episode/1fu2ui7AX8OhvbfK1qc0oI

Interested in sharing YOUR story?

montessoriwithmultiples.com/miscarriagesandmilestonespodcast/

Always remember, every step you take after a miscarriage is a milestone.

#rainbowbabies #pregnacyafterloss #pregnacyaftermiscarriage #rainbowbaby🌈
#parentingafterloss #PALSupport #pregnancyloss #miscarriage #babyloss #lossmom #bereavedmother #bereavedparents #Miscarriagesandmilestones #griefandloss

This podcast honours the milestones that follow lo

This podcast honours the milestones that follow loss.

The stories we’re rarely invited to share.

We share honest conversations about the joyous and bittersweet ways our loss has shaped us. We hold space for those tender milestones: trying to conceive, pregnancy after loss, parenting while grieving, and how we continue to move forward carrying out angel babies with us.

Listen to real conversations between mothers who have walked this road.

The trailer is now live:
https://open.spotify.com/episode/4q1JYKxc9wj8iKie9IhblT?si=AR4lt70EQaGYyhM6KuLFJw

#pregnancyafterloss #parentingafterloss #PALSupport #pregnancyloss #miscarriage #babyloss #lossmom #bereavedmother #bereavedparents #Miscarriagesandmilestones #griefandloss

𝐆𝐞𝐧𝐝𝐞𝐫 𝐃𝐢𝐬𝐚𝐩𝐩𝐨𝐢𝐧𝐭𝐦𝐞𝐧𝐭 𝐀𝐟𝐭𝐞𝐫 𝐋𝐨𝐬𝐬 — Miscarriages & Milestones Podcast

In this episode, I explore the deeply personal and often taboo topic of gender disappointment after pregnancy loss. Through my own story, I explore how grief, guilt, and expectations all intertwine in the new reality that doesn’t match the dream we once held.

I share how gender reveals can be so much more complex after loss. Why disappointment doesn’t mean a lack of love, and how we must give ourselves grace in this tender time of healing.

Hopefully, this episode will provide some of the clarity and comfort you’ve been seeking

💗 Milestones We Explore:

♡ Navigating pregnancy after loss

♡ Announcing a new pregnancy after
a miscarriage

♡ Acknowledging and validating gender disappointment

♡ Loosening our grip on expectations

♡ Accepting the heartbreaking truth that our reality has changed

♡ Extending grace and compassion to ourselves

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Thank you for listening to Miscarriages and Milestones, my name is Tabitha, host of this podcast & Hanna's mom.

If today's episode resonated with you, please share it with someone else who may need to hear it.

If you're interested in sharing your own story, please apply at our webpage:

MontessoriWithMultiples.com/MiscarriagesAndMilestonesPodcast/

Always remember, every step you take after a miscarriage is a milestone.

https://open.spotify.com/episode/0uV8q7tY3vQzb6opa4SMYM

#pregnancyafterloss #parentingafterloss #PALSupport #pregnancyloss #miscarriage #babyloss #lossmom #bereavedmother #bereavedparents #Miscarriagesandmilestones #griefandloss

Welcome to Miscarriages & Milestones This podcast

Welcome to Miscarriages & Milestones

This podcast honours the milestones that follow loss.

The stories we’re rarely invited to share.

We share honest conversations about the joyous and bittersweet ways our loss has shaped us. We hold space for those tender milestones: trying to conceive, pregnancy after loss, parenting while grieving, and how we continue to move forward carrying out angel babies with us.

Listen to real conversations between mothers who have walked this road.

The trailer is now live:
https://open.spotify.com/episode/4q1JYKxc9wj8iKie9IhblT?si=AR4lt70EQaGYyhM6KuLFJw

#pregnancyafterloss #parentingafterloss #PALSupport #pregnancyloss #miscarriage #babyloss #lossmom #bereavedmother #bereavedparents #Miscarriagesandmilestones #griefandloss

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