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🤍 Miscarriages & Milestones Podcast🤍
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Reflecting on that first year post miscarriage.. .

𝐌𝐢𝐬𝐜𝐚𝐫𝐫𝐢𝐚𝐠𝐞𝐬 𝐚𝐧𝐝 𝐌𝐢𝐥𝐞𝐬𝐭𝐨𝐧𝐞𝐬 𝐄𝐩𝐢𝐬𝐨𝐝𝐞 5: 𝑪𝒐𝒏𝒄𝒆𝒊𝒗𝒊𝒏𝒈 𝑨𝒇𝒕𝒆𝒓 𝑴𝒊𝒔𝒄𝒂𝒓𝒓𝒊𝒂𝒈𝒆 (𝑻𝑻𝑪)

Episode 5 is now 𝐋𝐈𝐕𝐄. Link in bio!

In this episode of Miscarriages and Milestones, we dive into the complex journey of trying to conceive (TTC) after experiencing a miscarriage. Join me, as we explore the emotional landscape of pregnancy after miscarriage, the challenges of TTC following baby loss, and the delicate balance of nurturing hope while grieving.

I discuss the often-misunderstood urgency many feel to become pregnant again after a loss, the fears that accompany this leap of faith, and the implications behind phrases like “you can always have another baby.” This conversation sheds light on fertility after miscarriage, the waiting period to conceive again, and the less spoken of gap between loss and pregnancies' after.

The desire to try again is not synonymous with moving on, and that a living child is not a replacement for the ones lost. Pregnancy after loss is not a reset; it’s a unique journey filled with its own challenges and joys.

Whether you’re navigating TTC after loss, experiencing pregnancy after miscarriage, or supporting someone through the grief of baby loss, this episode offers honest, nuanced, and compassionate perspectives on a journey shaped by both love and loss.

I’m truly grateful you found your way here. 💜💜💜

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My 3 January babies 💜💙💙 "Any mother of m $My 3 January babies 💜💙💙 "Any mother of multiple children (or mother of multiples) will understand that your time, energy and attention will be divided. This is no less true for mothers who have lost. I hold space to love, cherish, and remember all my children. Room for love, and room to grieve. Like all balancing acts, this process is imperfect. Times when I will need to prioritize the needs of one child over another, or more challenging, times when I need to admit that I need to step back from motherhood responsibilities to calm and collect myself. A mothers relationship with her children changes as time passes. This is true for the living and the lost. Years beyond the loss I have healed in many ways. The grief not so unbearable. The anger more manageable. The pain, for the most part, replaced with bittersweet gratitude for having known baby H and the meaningful impact she has had on our lives and the experiences thereafter. I am hopeful for a long, fulfilling life with my living children filled with all the joys, new discoveries, and even necessary pains that make life worth living. For my daughter, we only had a small fraction of time carved out. A time now relegated to memories. I always say that I never moved on from the loss of my daughter. I have moved forward with her. I hold her still and love her very much. As I do all my children, living, passed, and those not yet born. Parenting twins after loss doesn’t replace the pain, it offers space to grow love in parallel. I continue honoring my deceased child while navigating this new chapter of parenting after loss and healing." #PregnancyLoss, #Miscarriage #PregnancyLossAwareness #BabyLoss #bereavedparents #Twinmom #Miscarriagesandmilestones$

𝐌𝐢𝐬𝐜𝐚𝐫𝐫𝐢𝐚𝐠𝐞𝐬 𝐚𝐧𝐝 𝐌𝐢𝐥𝐞𝐬𝐭𝐨𝐧𝐞𝐬 𝐄𝐩𝐢𝐬𝐨𝐝𝐞 𝟒: 𝐇𝐚𝐧𝐧𝐚’𝐬 𝐒𝐭𝐨𝐫𝐲 🐇

Episode 4 is now 𝐋𝐈𝐕𝐄. Link in bio!

This is the most personal one I’ve ever shared. I’m sharing my story, 𝑯𝒂𝒏𝒏𝒂’𝒔 𝒔𝒕𝒐𝒓𝒚, and the journey I walked with her through loss.

For years, I’ve spoken at events for loss mothers, healthcare providers, and students… but always in pieces. Shortened for time, or censored for the room. In this episode I share the most complete retelling I’ve ever given, including parts I’ve never spoken about until now.

This is my experience of a silent second-trimester miscarriage, often called a missed miscarriage, of my daughter Hanna. It’s a story that includes midwifery care, a planned home birth, unexpected emergency room visits, and the surgery that ultimately saved my life.

It’s a journey marked by fear, anger, and hopelessness — and also, unexpectedly, by love, growth, and grace.

𝐌𝐢𝐥𝐞𝐬𝐭𝐨𝐧𝐞𝐬 𝐈 𝐒𝐡𝐚𝐫𝐞:

♡ Pregnancy as a first time mom
♡ The Silent loss and birth of my baby in the second trimester
♡ Preparing for and laboring baby’s arrival at home
♡ Honoring her short life with photos and a tender burial
♡ Navigating postpartum recovery without a living baby
♡ How grief reshaped friendships, support systems, and relationships
♡ Facing unexpected and painful reminders in the world
♡ Channeling loss into writing, hands-on projects, and creative expression

Thank you for letting me share Hanna’s story. Thank you for honoring her with your presence. For letting Hanna’s memory live alongside your own. I hope that hearing mine helps you feel seen, less alone, and connected to another loss mom who understands.

I’m truly grateful you found your way here. 💜💜💜

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✨New Episode Coming soon! This week, I’ll be

🎙️ LISTEN NOW: https://open.spotify.com/episo

𝗪𝗮𝗻𝘁 𝗧𝗼 𝗦𝗵𝗮𝗿𝗲 𝗬𝗢𝗨𝗥 𝗠𝗶𝗹𝗲𝘀𝘁𝗼𝗻𝗲𝘀? 👣

When I lost my sweet baby girl, I remember longing for connection more than anything. I wanted to say her name out loud, to tell the world about the beautiful baby they would never get to meet, and to find others who truly understood the life changing impact of that grief.

@Miscarriages.and.Milestones podcast was born from that longing. Dedicated to the mothers navigating life after pregnancy loss, at any stage. Together, we honour the milestones we’re rarely invited to talk about.

On this podcast, I host unfiltered conversations with mothers who want to:

❤ Honour their baby’s memory
❤ See and celebrate the growth within themselves
❤ Offer their unique perspective and values
❤ Help other grieving mothers feel less alone
❤ Reclaim their loss in their own words, unfiltered
❤ Chip away at silence and stigma
❤ Create a meaningful tribute to the little life/lives that changed theirs

I would love to hear from you:
www.montessoriwithmultiples.com/miscarriagesandmilestonespodcast/

Your story matters. Your babies matter. You are not alone.

#pregnancyafterloss #parentingafterloss #pregnancyloss #miscarriage #babyloss #lossmom #bereavedmother #bereavedparents #Miscarriagesandmilestones

In this episode, I sit down with Carmen, a mother

🌈 Episode 2: A Rainbow Welcoming Party for Preg

This podcast honours the milestones that follow lo

𝐆𝐞𝐧𝐝𝐞𝐫 𝐃𝐢𝐬𝐚𝐩𝐩𝐨𝐢𝐧𝐭𝐦𝐞𝐧𝐭 𝐀𝐟𝐭𝐞𝐫 𝐋𝐨𝐬𝐬 — Miscarriages & Milestones Podcast

In this episode, I explore the deeply personal and often taboo topic of gender disappointment after pregnancy loss. Through my own story, I explore how grief, guilt, and expectations all intertwine in the new reality that doesn’t match the dream we once held.

I share how gender reveals can be so much more complex after loss. Why disappointment doesn’t mean a lack of love, and how we must give ourselves grace in this tender time of healing.

Hopefully, this episode will provide some of the clarity and comfort you’ve been seeking

💗 Milestones We Explore:

♡ Navigating pregnancy after loss

♡ Announcing a new pregnancy after
a miscarriage

♡ Acknowledging and validating gender disappointment

♡ Loosening our grip on expectations

♡ Accepting the heartbreaking truth that our reality has changed

♡ Extending grace and compassion to ourselves

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Thank you for listening to Miscarriages and Milestones, my name is Tabitha, host of this podcast & Hanna's mom.

If today's episode resonated with you, please share it with someone else who may need to hear it.

If you're interested in sharing your own story, please apply at our webpage:

MontessoriWithMultiples.com/MiscarriagesAndMilestonesPodcast/

Always remember, every step you take after a miscarriage is a milestone.

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